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Postby laxfan25 on Fri Oct 19, 2007 1:26 pm

Beta wrote: Sex has consequences, whether we realize it or not.


I think everyone realizes that fact, and that is why women want to retain the right to deal with unintended and unplanned cosnequences in a manner of their own choosing.
It's not as simple as - "you're prego. Carry it, deliver it and give it away". Undertaking an abortion is a difficult decision. Giving up a newborn child can be equally or even more devastating.
There are so many factors that each woman or couple has to take into account - that is why this is best left as a highly personal decision - probably the most personal decision. Make your own decisions based on your precepts, but please don't make decisions for others.

I also realize we are unlikely to resolve this issue on the collegelax.us forum. Thanks for knocking that hornet's nest to the ground Dan! I've got real work to do!
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Postby Dan Wishengrad on Fri Oct 19, 2007 1:36 pm

You are welcome, my fellow (sort of :lol: ) Husky.

I am interested to hear these viewpoints. I just wish that everyone who wants to see abortion outlawed would simply answer Ms. Quindlen's question. If you believe with an absloute certainty that abortion is murder, you should also be prepared to weigh in on the consequences for breaking the law if Roe v Wade is overturned in the future.
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Postby BB on Fri Oct 19, 2007 1:48 pm

I think as my thoughts have evolved on this, and as technology has improved I have started leaning more right. To me the only form of abortion should be the morning after pill.

If you have sex take birth control pills, use a condom, or take the morning after pill. I don't know why you would need to wait until testing for pregnancy after missing your period, deal with it directly after the action of sex or deal with the consequences of the situation that you put yourself.
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Postby Dan Wishengrad on Fri Oct 19, 2007 2:24 pm

BB wrote:If you have sex take birth control pills, use a condom, or take the morning after pill. I don't know why you would need to wait until testing for pregnancy after missing your period, deal with it directly after the action of sex or deal with the consequences of the situation that you put yourself.


LOL but taking contraceptives for birth control suggests that the sex itself is a planned-for activity. How many of us having ever woken up with a serious hangover, next to someone we don't even know (I will admit that I have). Are we going to return to prohibition as part of this debate over unwanted pregnancies? If you want to outlaw abortion, shouldn't you also be for outlawing Long Island Teas and "happy hours" also?
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Postby LaxTV_Admin on Fri Oct 19, 2007 2:35 pm

laxfan25 wrote:

That's great - that is YOUR belief. My belief is that an embryo is not a child - that an appropriate end date for an abortion would be when the fetus is viable outside of the womb - say third trimester. Neither of our beliefs should impinge on the right of a woman to make her own choice.


Why does the ability to see justify something as life? Are you like doubting Thomas? Are you saying that you only believe what you see?

I am not saying you are wrong or that I have to impose my will upon you, but I am concerned that you believe life is only what you can see. If that is the case can I safely assume you are either agnostic or atheist? If so, then in reality it will be difficult for us to come to a consensus considering we are operating under very different basic foundations.

I am just asking questions before I respond with my argument. This is not intended to take a jab at you. You articulate yourself very well, so I am certain you will respond then I can come back with my rebutle :)

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What really galls me is when right-to-lifers campaign against the "morning-after" pill that simply prevents an egg from implanting in the uterus.


I don't think anyone can argue with preventative measures (religion aside), assuming of course people actually know how stuff works.

One of the issues I have with the church I was baptized in is that they espouse that using anything besides the "rhythm method" (and I don't mean smooth jazz on the stereo) is a sin. Of course this dictate is handed down by the leadership of the church that contains how many female viewpoints? Oh, that's right - zero! Women are unworthy of the priesthood. Score one more for the penile-endowed.
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I think that you are touching another argument, but I also think you are misguided. In my opinion you are inferring the members of said Church are not looking out for the best interest of all AND following the mandate put forth to us by God. Last time I checked the Church teaches what it believes to be God's way. Are you going to argue that God is not taking woman's feelings into account when he told us right & wrong?

It could be argued perhaps the Church is wrong, but to say the leadership has no woman has nothing to do with it. I would challenge you to find a verse or teaching of Christ that DOES support abortion.
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Postby sohotrightnow on Fri Oct 19, 2007 2:41 pm

It could be argued perhaps the Church is wrong, but to say the leadership has no woman has nothing to do with it. I would challenge you to find a verse or teaching of Christ that DOES support abortion.


Ah yes, the Church. I challenge you to find a verse that supports priests having sex with altar boys.
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Postby Danny Hogan on Fri Oct 19, 2007 2:47 pm

sohotrightnow wrote:
It could be argued perhaps the Church is wrong, but to say the leadership has no woman has nothing to do with it. I would challenge you to find a verse or teaching of Christ that DOES support abortion.


Ah yes, the Church. I challenge you to find a verse that supports priests having sex with altar boys.


or any verse that mentions the rhythym method
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Postby LaxTV_Admin on Fri Oct 19, 2007 3:10 pm

Danny Hogan wrote:
sohotrightnow wrote:
It could be argued perhaps the Church is wrong, but to say the leadership has no woman has nothing to do with it. I would challenge you to find a verse or teaching of Christ that DOES support abortion.


Ah yes, the Church. I challenge you to find a verse that supports priests having sex with altar boys.


or any verse that mentions the rhythym method


Awesome. Nobody said the Church or any human institution was perfect. We are all humans and all make mistakes. Hence why we are having a discussion like this.

I still challenge you to find a teaching of Christ that supports abortion. I conceded there is none for the above two mentioned items.
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Postby Dan Wishengrad on Fri Oct 19, 2007 3:10 pm

Well folks, my two and a half days off from work are now over, so I won't be able to sit here and post or even follow this debate until very late tonight. Got to earn a living!

For anybody who might be interested, there have been almost nine hundred views of this thread already and over 80 posts, and unless I've missed somebody there have been a grand total of TWO folks who have been willing to answer the simple question Ms. Quindlen (and I) posed at the beginning.

Beta and BJ are the only avowed anti-abortionists who have been willing to answer the question, and both have stated they would support a life sentence. I expected at least one similiarly-minded poster to advocate the death penalty -- the biblical "an eye for an eye".

Anybody else out there who agrees that abortion should be outlawed brave enough to answer the simple question?
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Postby Jana on Fri Oct 19, 2007 3:12 pm

Banning something won't make it go away (drugs? underage drinking? drinking & driving?). I think the best way to reduce abortions is the hard way - a major cultural shift in how we think about sex, the related consequences, and personally taking responsibiliy for protection. Right now our whole culture is centered around "hooking up" without consequences. Fortunately for the guys, news reports a few weeks ago say the male version of the pill will be available in a few years.

Of course, just like the female version, anyone can lie about taking it, when they are not...but still want to score.

I still remember the Monica Lewinsky controversy, prior to Clinton she had a fling with an Air Force officer, got pregnant, and he complained because she wanted him to help pay for an abortion at a clinic charging $600, that had more after care, instead of another one that charged $400 but had no aftercare. He was definitely a stand up guy.... :roll:
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Postby LaxTV_Admin on Fri Oct 19, 2007 3:15 pm

Yes - Roe v. Wade ought to be overturned.

Yes - someone who gets an abortion deserves a punishment. Given that most of these are likely teenagers (this is a huge assumption on my part with no statistically data to support it, so I might be wrong) I would start off with a lenient punishment which would NOT ruin the life of an individual (perhaps probation).

I would offer that subsequent violations ought to punished accordingly with a more severe punishment. Perhaps prison time, all the way to life. I do not agree with capital punishment and would argue vehemently against it.

There ya go Dan, this answered your question, a very good one.
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Postby OAKS on Fri Oct 19, 2007 3:24 pm

mulax06 wrote:I still challenge you to find a teaching of Christ that supports abortion. I conceded there is none for the above two mentioned items.


Are there teachings of Christ that denounce abortion specifically? I'm genuinely interested, but not in generalities like 'all life is sacred'.
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Postby LaxTV_Admin on Fri Oct 19, 2007 3:51 pm

OAKS wrote:
mulax06 wrote:I still challenge you to find a teaching of Christ that supports abortion. I conceded there is none for the above two mentioned items.


Are there teachings of Christ that denounce abortion specifically? I'm genuinely interested, but not in generalities like 'all life is sacred'.


Good question. I do not know off the top of my head. I would bet there are not any that denounce abortion specifically, but I will see what I can dig up :)
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Postby laxfan25 on Fri Oct 19, 2007 4:09 pm

mulax06 wrote:
laxfan25 wrote:

That's great - that is YOUR belief. My belief is that an embryo is not a child - that an appropriate end date for an abortion would be when the fetus is viable outside of the womb - say third trimester. Neither of our beliefs should impinge on the right of a woman to make her own choice.


Why does the ability to see justify something as life? Are you like doubting Thomas? Are you saying that you only believe what you see?

I am not saying you are wrong or that I have to impose my will upon you, but I am concerned that you believe life is only what you can see. If that is the case can I safely assume you are either agnostic or atheist? If so, then in reality it will be difficult for us to come to a consensus considering we are operating under very different basic foundations.


P, ???? What is all this about seeing? Did you misread my statement that abortions should be allowed when the fetus is viable outside the womb as visible outside the womb?
Agnostic or atheist - is that kind of like ignorant or apathetic? - "I don't know and I don't care!"

As for my personal beliefs - I was raised a Catholic and spent nine years in Catholic schools - and it never took. I had questions even in elementary school - "only Roman Catholics are allowed into heaven" - Why??? I recognized loopholes very early on though. "If you attend nine First Friday Masses in a row you are guaranteed Extreme Unction (Last Rites)" Let's see, if I get Last Rites God will forgive all my sins and I will get to heaven - deal! "God is all-knowing and all-powerful" So God knows what I'm going to do even before I do it - so how can I have free will if he's already written the book?

A thread a while back had a comment by everythingwentnumb that pretty much reflects my principles;
You claim that only by returning to the morals and values held dear by Christianity may we have a return to normalcy, so-to-speak. My question is, do you really need a book and the threat of eternal damnation to make sure you do good in the world? If that threat wasn't there, would you still act respectfully, morally? Or would you hate your neighbor and cheat your friend? I am a loud-and-proud atheist, and I live by a strong moral code. Honor, duty, respect, and love are major parts of my life. I do well onto others because it is the right thing to do. I don't need a book or an all-powerful being or the threat of eternal damnation to continue living morally -- because that's the right thing to do.


I do believe in Higher Consciousness - but don't believe in the need for organized religion. While faith may serve the spiritual needs of many people I think a lot of injustice has been visited on humanity under the guise of religion.

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Beta wrote:
What really galls me is when right-to-lifers campaign against the "morning-after" pill that simply prevents an egg from implanting in the uterus.


I don't think anyone can argue with preventative measures (religion aside), assuming of course people actually know how stuff works.

One of the issues I have with the church I was baptized in is that they espouse that using anything besides the "rhythm method" (and I don't mean smooth jazz on the stereo) is a sin. Of course this dictate is handed down by the leadership of the church that contains how many female viewpoints? Oh, that's right - zero! Women are unworthy of the priesthood. Score one more for the penile-endowed.


mulax06 wrote: I think that you are touching another argument, but I also think you are misguided. In my opinion you are inferring the members of said Church are not looking out for the best interest of all AND following the mandate put forth to us by God. Last time I checked the Church teaches what it believes to be God's way. Are you going to argue that God is not taking woman's feelings into account when he told us right & wrong?

It could be argued perhaps the Church is wrong, but to say the leadership has no woman has nothing to do with it. I would challenge you to find a verse or teaching of Christ that DOES support abortion.


And I think that you are misguided in thinking that the Roman Catholic Church Corporation speaks for God. I think that there are many fine people in the church, but I also think that the leadership of the church is populated by narrow-minded folks that do not have the best interests of all the members of the church in mind. If they did they would allow woman to be ordained! At the church I occasionally attend the majority of the people that are really active are women, and yet they are relegated to a subservient role. I think that not allowing priests to marry causes self-selection of candidates that in some cases are really warped personalities - it is not a natural lifestyle!

All of this is irrelevant to the discussion of the illegality of abortion. I don't want the Catholic Church (or any church) dictating social policy to everyone else, whether they are a church member or not. It is why I support AUSCS - Americans United for the Separation of Church and State. There was a lot of wisdom in our founding fathers when they built that principle into the Constitution.
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Postby jayjaciv on Fri Oct 19, 2007 4:45 pm

Because I don't have the willpower to keep my mouth shut...

ZamboniDriver had an interesting question about how people's views on this would shift if it were possible to take a fetus out early and artificially rear it until it is full term. This brings to mind the point that has been made several times already, which is that the central point of contention in this debate is the time at which a fetus becomes viable.

I have great difficulty swallowing the argument that any semblance of a fetus is a human being, or even alive. Potential for life is not a life. Regardless of whether or not it may potentially become a human being at some point, it is not a human at the time it is aborted (now to figure out when replicating cells become human -- so easy). Assuming you accept this as the truth, the only human in the equation is the mother. So shouldn't the mother be allowed to do what's best for her? Cells undergoing mitosis and meiosis don't care if they're forced to stop replicating, but I think an adult woman really cares if she has to spend nine months of her life bringing a child into a world that doesn't want it.

Someone said they understood that when they hatched chickens in school, the chicken was a chicken even before it was born. Really? Because if that's true, then I've been eating chicken abortions for breakfast for quite some time. :(
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