by laxfan25 on Mon Dec 25, 2006 12:11 pm
Kyle,
Good comments all around - I didn't mean to imply that it was just an issue of money. I was just a little peeved that the state association would like to roll back fees, which are on the lower end in our region.
I agree that getting a feeder program is key to the overall development of the sport in an area - not only to bring interested players along, but it also gives a nice training ground for new officials, where a mistake is not a horrible thing.
In our town, the HS seniors actually serve as coaches for the younger kids (like 5th-6th grade I believe), which gets them into the "giving back to the game" mode. I have also trained quite a few HS kids to be refs the last couple years - it's disappointing when they don't follow through and actually do it. If I can get a handful out of each group though, it is a foundation for the future. What's nice is that it is a skill they can take anywhere in the country - do HS/MS games while they're in college and keep up afterwards. Playing and reffing don't have to be mutually exclusive either.
I started reffing about 21 years ago. A buddy and I had started a men's club team in '81, and there were few if any refs in the area. Dick "Barney" Bauernschmidt used to send refs from Chicago, which was about a 3+ hour drive one-way. Eventually he roped me into reffing as well. I was co-captain of the team, assignor for the area and also a ref! There weren't nearly the number of HS teams at that time - just 2 in our area.
I was never interested in the coaching side - didn't get into the x's and o's - but have always wanted a well-called game where the players determine the outcome and one team doesn't get an advantage by bending the rules or by bad calls. Having started playing in '69, I feel I know the game well, know the spirit of the rules, and appreciate the tradition of sportsmanship that separates lacrosse from all others, in my mind. Yes, you can play hard, deck people, whack 'em with sticks and get away with it, but in the end you shake hands and (hopefully) sincerely congratulate them. That has been my mantra, and what I strive to achieve on the field. I'm not a ticky-tacky stickler on stuff that really doesn't matter to the play of the game. If we've got a field of some sort, and two teams that just want to play lacrosse - let's do it! (Yes, I can do it all when necessary - it's just running the game as appropriate given the teams and level of play).
One fond memory is when I first moved to Minnesota in '96. I got a call from someone who heard I had moved up there (I didn't know any of the lax people in the area) to do a Twin Cities Lax Club game at the last minute - oh, and do it solo. Arrived at the field, no one knew me and I could tell by the skeptical looks that they were wondering a bit. Negotiated the rate for the game, and proceeded to start. Needless to say, I did the typical stellar job, and at the end, both teams were quite complimentary ("You did better alone than we typically get with two!") and they even bumped up the pay based on how satisfied they were. Certainly made me feel good, and got me off to a nice start in the area.
So I ref out of a long-time love of the game, a respect for the avocation and craft of refereeing (it ain't as easy as it looks! Ask any first-time ref who has played the game) and because you have the best seat in the house - bar none! (Although you would be amazed at how well coaches can call crease violations from 40 yards away, when you are standing right next to it!). Yes, the money is a nice perk, and I am grateful to the associations that help to keep pay in line with reasonableness.
I do hope more of you players will consider taking up the whistle. One plus for a working stiff - the hours are much more reasonable than those that coach! I respect those that take up the coaching reins. They put in long, long hours at miserable rates of compensation. They definitely do it out of love for the game, and I do try to maintain an atmosphere of mutual respect in my games - we're all trying to give the best effort for the kids that are playing - that is the bottom line!